Laughter 1: The innocent husband
I follow a
lot of newspaper site on Facebook, such as The Economist, ABC, BBC, Fox News,
The San Francisco Globe, etc. Some of the posts were news-worthy, some are just
plain misery to read, and some are out straight silly and comical. A few days
ago, I came across an article titled “Woman films her husband after he wakes up
from wisdom teeth removal surgery” on The San Francisco Globe. Since I knew
that The San Francisco Globe is a page full of non-sense and comical videos, I
clicked the article, hoping for something funny to stir up my day.
The embedded main
picture before the video starts was of a man, about thirty years old,
half-conscious with his dull eyes half opened, holding three strips of tissue
in his mouth. This scene reminded me of my scary childhood memories when I had
to go to the dentist and came out with a mouthful of cotton balls. “It’s going
be hilarious” – I think. The video starts with the woman’s asking “Hey honey
can you wake up?” He answered with his eyes closed: “It’s my lips. It feels
like super glue” and went on “… I like skateboard.” My wife was laughing and
asking “What do you think they should give you for doing so good?” And he said:
“Skateboard” again. His honest and innocent answers made me giggle for a while.
In this case, I agree with the incongruity theory about humor. The surprising
factor in his irrelevant answer to his wife’s questions violated my expectation
about typical answers a thirty-year-old man could have produced. As I giggled,
I felt bad for this guy at the same time. He was in discomfort after the surgery
and certainly still under the effect of anesthesia. However, his helpless
situation only increased the comical factor. Those who follow the superiority
theory may ask whether I was giggling because I felt superior to him. No, I
would say. I was entertained not because I had a cruel heart and enjoyed seeing
people half-conscious being filmed. I was entertained because I was surprised with
his surprisingly irrelevant answers and I knew he was under no danger since it
was just a mini surgery to remove a wisdom tooth and he understood perfectly what
his wife was asking him.
The wife
continued to asked questions and laughed at the same time, which partly
contributed to my laughter. Because
laughter is contagious; once we hear another person laugh, we will have the
tendency to simulate the action. After about 3 minutes, the conversation
between the spouses took an interesting turn.
- Wife: You
are going to go home and sleep for six hours. I don’t think we are going to the
movie tonight, sweetie!”
- Husband: Are
you going to take advantage of me? …I know you’ll probably take my clothes off.
To this point
I busted out in uncontrollable loud laughter. This twist of conversation once
again confirms my belief in the incongruity theory. I laughed out loud because never
in my life had I heard a husband raising concern about whether his wife would take advantage of him when he slept,
considering the two of them were in good relationship. It was odd how a man,
still lying in the hospital’s bed with his eyes closed and his mouth full of
cotton balls, showed worries about what his wife may do to him when he sleeps.
At the end of
the day, comical videos like this one are good sources of entertainment. They
brighten up my day as they strike benign laughter and help release stress. More
importantly, these videos are of real, daily life and not staged; thus, they
reinforce my belief in positive, humorous incidents in life.
(Feel free to serve yourself with the video I
mentioned above here: http://sfglobe.com/2015/01/08/woman-films-her-husband-after-he-wakes-up-from-his-wisdom-teeth-removal-surgery/?src=fbfan_30731)
Thanks for your posting on this piece of humor.
ReplyDeleteAnh, I completely agree about the value of comical videos. I definitely have various videos that I can pull up at any time and know that they will make me laugh even on the worst of days. Sometimes, when there isn't anyone else around, these videos can even replace the company of others in providing a good laugh. These videos can also help to bring people together. As we share them with each other like you have done, we find things in common and similarities in sense of humor. These things help to bring joy to people and connect us all together in unique ways
ReplyDeleteThis is hilarious! I love watching videos of people after they have gotten their wisdom teeth taken out. As much as we like to attribute our laughter to the incongruity/ benign violation theory of humor, I think that there is definitely a small sadistic side to us that likes to watch videos of people being embarrassed. I also love that there are news sites like the San Francisco Globe that post silly and comical videos and stories. These days, it seems like the media is capitalizing off of all of the hurt, pain, and sorrow in the world, and it is so refreshing to have a news site that shows up that there is still lots to be happy about.
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